Heard in Room 3

J: I can't wait to grow up and be a ref because I know they can get free food from the snack bar.

D: Once I got food poisoning from the Chinese restaurant. They weren't giving us very good service.
Me: You got food poisoning because they weren't giving you good service?
D: Yup.

Heard in Room 3.

J: When I grow up, I want to adopt a kid with Downs Syndrome.

Me: That's wonderful! What made you want to do that?

J: I don't know, I just like 'em!

S: Well, when I grow up, I want to adopt a midget!

Oh dear. Sweet moment totally ruined. Or maybe he just has a heart for the extraordinarily short-- we'll never really know.

Reading List 2010

In case you are new to the blog, you may not know something important about me. My name is Rachel and I am a librarybookaholic and I rarely don't always return the books on time. Seriously. It is a problem that has racked up numerous library fines in large, large amounts. That has been a blast and a half, I'll tell you.

Anyway, two of my favorite bloggers, The Newlywed Next Door and Erin at Blue-Eyed Bride, did their book lists of 2010. I do realize that we are a good 1/12th into 2010, but when has rhyme or reason ever stopped me? I gave myself two books per month to read but I am confident that there will be more sandwiched in there because reading is my #1 hobby, other than watching Pants on the Ground on YouTube over and over until I can't breathe because I'm laughing so hard. If you don't know the Pants on the Ground song, I'd advise you to watch the video quickly because it will change your life for the better. You also won't take the risk of lookin' like a fool with your pants on the ground if you are aware of the risk. WATCH.

Okay, back to books. Here are my top choices for 2010!

Month 1: The Real Real by Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus and Same Kind of Different as Me by Ron Hall and Denver Moore with Lynn Vincent
I am nearly finished with The Real Real and I'm not loving it. I want to finish for the sake of finishing at this point. Same Kind of Different as Me has been started and I can't wait to get further into it.

Month 2: Nanny Returns by Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus and Not My Daughter by Barbara Delinsky
The sequel to one of my favorite books (The Nanny Diaries) is finally out! Hooray! I'm also excited to read Not My Daughter which is based on the pregnancy pact of those 18 or so high school girls that came out a few years ago.

Month 3: Have a Little Faith by Mitch Albom and The 39 Clues: The Maze of Bones by Rick Riordan
I really enjoy Mitch Albom as an author and the second book is a children's chapter book that I am going to read aloud to my class next. It was recommended by my aunt who read it with her daughter!

Month 4: The Wedding Girl by Sophie Kinsella writing as Madeleine Wickham and Down Came the Rain by Brooke Shields
I love, love, love Sophie Kinsella! The Shopaholic books were laugh out loud hysterical, much better than the movie, although I did enjoy the movie. I have also wanted to read Brooke Shield's book for awhile as depression is something that is very close to my heart.

Month 5: Shanghai Girls by Lisa See and Dewey: A Small-Town Library Cat Who Touched the World by Vicki Myron with Bret Witter
Shanghai Girls was recommended to me by the owner of a bed and breakfast we visited this summer. Dewey looks like a sweet and easy read and I absolutely love stories about animals.

Month 6: Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah and Witch & Wizard by James Patterson
I am intrigued by Firefly Lane after reading about it on several blogs. I also enjoy James Patterson's books sometimes, but he tends to get a bit too dark for my liking. I want to give his newest a try before I write it off completely.

Month 7: Dedication by Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus and A Voice in the Wind by Francine Rivers
Another book by the authors of The Nanny Diaries. The Real Real doesn't have me convinced that I want to swear off them as authors. I have also heard from many, many friends that I ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO READ THE MARK OF THE LION SERIES OR I WON'T BE A CHRISTIAN ANYMORE. Well, not really, but they have been rather enthusiastic. I'm not into historical fiction, but am willing to give this a try since I enjoyed Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers.

Month 8: Calm My Anxious Heart by Linda Dillow and The Friday Night Knitting Club by Kate Jacobs
I am actually currently reading the first book and am about to start going through it with a good friend (Hi, Libs!). I'm really excited to start meeting with her and reading together! This is already a fantastic book and I would highly recommend it. I have also heard good things about The Friday Night Knitting Club.

Month 9: The Glass Castle by Jeannette Wells and Going Rogue by Sarah Palin
I first heard about The Glass Castle from Sally and am super intrigued. And yes, I actually am quite looking forward to reading Sarah Palin's book-- don't hate. I like her and think she is interesting and if you aren't okay with that, well then, remember that we live in American and are free to make our own choices! Ha!

Month 10: The Help by Kathryn Stockett and I Will Carry You by Angie Smith
I can't wait to read The Help and am so pumped to read Angie's book when it comes out later this year. I bet a lot of you feel the same way! :)

Month 11: Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs and A Severe Mercy by Sheldon Vanauken
I have been wanting to read Love and Respect for a long time after hearing so many people rave about it. I'm sure it's great, but I like to formulate my own opinions about things! My sweet brother gave us A Severe Mercy (FYI, I just typed A Severe Mother-- WHAT? My mother is ANYTHING but severe!) for our first married Christmas and we still haven't made it all the way through. This year is the year!

Month 12: Wesley the Owl: The Remarkable Story of an Owl and His Girl by Stacey O'Brien and The Overnight Socialite by Bridie Clark
I love owls so I absolutely have to read this book. I have a feeling it will put me in tears by the end, but that's okay with me. I also heard about The Overnight Socialite from Blue-Eyed Bride and it looks like a fun story I'd enjoy.

Well, there you have it! Have any of you read any of these books? If so, what did you think? If you have any other recommendations, I would love to hear them as well. As I said earlier, I will read plenty of other books this year, so I will need other suggestions. What are some of your book choices this year? And, for good measure, be sure to keep your pants off the ground because if not, you'll be lookin' like a fool with your pants on the ground!

Revelation

To be honest, I really try hard not to blog twice in one day. Not sure why. Usually I don't have that much to say, but today, I wanted to write something down before I forgot.

By nature, I am a super sensitive person. Always have been, probably always will be. I get my feelings hurt pretty easily, sometimes rightly so and sometimes not. Today, the feelings were hurt a little bit. No big surprise there. My natural response when I get my feelings hurt is to lash out at that person or situation. Lovely, huh?

Today, I was praying about this situation and the Lord pretty much slapped me right upside the head with something that I needed to be praying about more-- that I would be very aware of it when I hurt someone else's feelings... because I'm not. I spend a lot of time thinking about how my feelings are hurt but never about how I could have hurt someone else in a conversation or action. I started praying that the Lord would make it very obvious to me through the Holy Spirit when I hurt someone else and that I would be humble enough to apologize and make it right.

Don't get me wrong, my feelings are still hurt and for once, I think they have a right to be. However, that shouldn't stop me from asking the Lord to help me be more sensitive to others when I am in the wrong and trust me, I am in the wrong a lot.

This may not make a whole lot of sense to anyone else, but it was something I wanted to put down in writing so that I have some accountability on the days where I am not feeling so amenable to what God has called me to do. Those days are currently a bit too frequent.

Thanks for reading and we will now return to our regularly scheduled blogging. :)

Heard in Room 3

While talking about our favorite fruit...
A: My dad and I sit on the couch, eat oranges, and watch Bill O'Reilly.

N: At recess today, I ran like the dickens!

N: [When I run] Bobby is the only person that can rival me in speed and maneuverability.

Help for Haiti

I'll be honest. I don't even remember how I heard about the horrible earthquake in Haiti and it was only days ago. I do remember thinking, "How sad," and going about whatever I was doing. I am ashamed that that was my initial reaction, but soon after I realized how devastating the earthquake truly was, I couldn't think about much else.

I had little knowledge of Haiti before this earthquake. In high school, my family went on a cruise and one of the stops was on the cruise line's private island. This island was in Haiti. We went on a jet ski trip around the island and stopped at a few different places to listen to the guide tell us some facts about the island. During one of our stops on the other side of the island, we saw a group of young Haitian children on the shoreline with some adults (assumed to be their parents). As we were sitting on our jet skis listening to the guide, the children paddled out in makeshift boats to us and began to beg. The guide instructed us to not look them in the eye because if we did, they would try to climb atop our jet skis. We went on our way soon after, leaving young, poverty stricken children in the choppy ocean in boats that were most likely made of trash and quite dangerous.

I haven't stopped thinking about those kids for the past few days. Where are they now? Are they alive? Are they orphans or trapped in a pile of rubble? I also can't stop thinking about being told to not even give these children eye contact. Were they not human? SO WHAT if they climbed on our jet ski? I can think about particularly rough days I've had where some eye contact and a smile from a stranger lightens my load or some physical contact from a loved one soothes my soul. What if that's all those children needed? At the time, I didn't think much of it, but now, I can't stop.

The people in Haiti had nothing to begin with and are now left with even less. For many of these Haitians, the only thing they had was family and even that has been ripped away. My heart aches, my eyes cloud with tears, and my face floods with embarrassment when I think of my petty worries and anxieties. We have so much and they have next to nothing. I complain that my pants are too tight when most of these people don't have the luxury of "too much food" or even clean water. I go on and on about what else I'd like to do to my house while home to these people is the street. I feel sorry for myself because I don't live close to my family and many of these people have lost their families for good. When things like this are put in perspective, you can't help but feel humbled, sick and thankful all at once. It makes me long to introduce these hurting people to the One who will always be consistent no matter what our circumstances. The One that allows us to have everything that we truly need-- if only I could remember that on a daily basis.

I have a friend (who is actually more like a cousin), Kristin, who is a missionary with her husband (Dave) in the Dominican Republic. Her husband's brother and sister-in-law (Tim & Paola-- Paola is 8 months pregnant) are actually missionaries in Port-au-Prince. They are safe, praise the Lord. Kristin is raising whatever money she can to help the effort to find the missing and keep those who are alive healthy and safe. Kristin has been very involved with Haitian orphans and she is experiencing the pain and loss as some of her close friends have been missing since the earthquake. Please pray for Tim, Paola, Dave, Kristin, and all of the others involved in their current nightmare.

Last night, Tyler and I decided to participate with Crystal at Money Saving Mom and her quest to help those who are in such need. We want to know-- how have you helped? Have you prayed, gotten things together to donate, texted the Red Cross to donate $10 on your next phone bill? The little things most certainly count and it doesn't matter what you can give as long as you do give in someway, whether that is through prayer, fasting, monetary gifts, goods, etc. Would you write a blog post about whatever you have done to help Haiti? After doing so, come back and link up below. If you don't have a blog, feel free to simply leave a comment. For every comment and/or link I receive in the next 24 hours, Ty and I will donate $0.25 to Kristin and Dave to help the Haitian people. This may not seem like much, but it's what we can do right now and still be financially responsible. :)

Thank you in advance for all that you are doing to help those in Haiti, whether or not you choose to blog or comment. My prayer for the Haitian people is an echo of Psalm 9:9-- "The Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble."

Come quickly, Lord Jesus.

I'm going to have to start begging on the street if we want to eat like this.

Today, I want to write on the blog. Really, I do. However, I feel as if I have nothing blog worthy for a post. Then, I realized, "It's MY blog so if I want to write on it, I CAN!" So, here I am.

Don't you just love the blog world? I do. I love it so much. It has enabled me to meet sweet new friends, reconnect with dear old friends, stay in touch with sister friends, and get to know far away friends in a completely new way. It is so lovely and I appreciate each one of you who read my blog and allow me to read yours. Delightful, I say!

On a completely different and unrelated note, the meal plan for the week has changed slightly due to some unforeseen circumstances (albeit, mostly pleasant unforeseen circumstances). The first glitch was last night when we decided to go out for Mexican food with Grant and Emily. What a delight, other than the fact that the restaurant was in Kentucky which still has yet to ban smoking from restaurants. How someone can smoke and eat at the same time is way beyond me. Not judging, just saying. Anyway, it is safe to say that every article of clothing that I wore last night reeked of smoke and went straight into the hamper. HOWEVER, the food was SO WORTH EVERY CLOUD OF SMOKE and the place was packed (read: we went on a Wednesday night and waited 20 minutes!). We knew then that we had found a gem. We also only waited 5 minutes for our food (I'm not exaggerating!) when we gave the waitress our order. The food was delicious, the company was better, and good times were had by all.

Afterwards, we went back to Grant and Em's house for a while and Emily and I looked through all of Foxy LB's clothes. Foxy LB is what I have nicknamed their baby girl (arriving in March) and no, you do not need an explanation. I am so pumped for Em to have this baby. Can't even wait. MMM, love me some baby girl!

In other news, we were going to have the Red Snapper Veracruzana. Well, PLANS HAVE CHANGED MY FRIENDS, AND DO YOU WANT TO KNOW WHY? Because A) there is not a blessed market in Cincinnati that carries red snapper and B) the comparable CHEAPER piece of fish to red snapper is a sea bass, which was being sold at my market for a whopping TWENTY FOUR DOLLARS PER POUND. I'm sorry, but if I wanted gold for dinner, I would just eat some and not spend it on FISH. Maybe, say, if the queen were coming for supper, but I'm not even sure that she likes fish. Just for the two of us though? Holy not a chance.

I do hear you saying though, "Rachel! You went out for supper last night! That is perfect! Now, you can just carry on with your meal plan and omit that one day." My friend, you would be correct. But say a certain person got home about 20 minutes past their bed time last night and that person was extra tired this morning so said person hit their alarm causing them to be a little bit late for work? Well, if that had happened, that person would have had no time to throw the Broccoli Beef in the crockpot for tonight's dinner. Not a moment to spare, I tell you!

Although that person is not me, I have a good suggestion for her. Grilled cheese and vegetable soup might be an easy and delicious meal. As a general rule, I prefer my grilled cheese to be made with diamonds which are real easy on the stomach, if not on the wallet. I prefer my food to sparkle and if I'm going to buy ANYTHING for $24 per pound, it had better be beautiful and not fish-like.

TWENTY FOUR BIG ONES. FOR FISH.

Okay, I'm done now.

BUT FISH? I WOULDN'T EVEN SPEND THAT ON A FISHING POLE.

Alright, seriously, done.